Who do you think is your biggest rival in the world of romance? Who’s gonna take your current or future girl? -The 6’5″, blue eyes, trust fund, muscular, 190 IQ guy in finance? No. The millionaire son who spends more on breakfast than you do on a car? No. The “gifted” pro athlete? No. The […]
One of my biggest dating mistakes (there are many) was talking to lukewarm women. It resulted in the most pain, wasted time, and a lot of frustration. And I wish, I’d become wiser earlier, but it is what it is. We have to live with the consequences of our actions as best as we can. […]
Men are often fed the following lies/clichés upon displaying frustration in the dating world: “Just be yourself.” “Be confident” “Be a gentleman” “Buy her flowers” “Listen to her.” …etc. Despite this “profound advice”, Mr. Nice Guy fails a million times. He experiences ghosting, insults, disrespect, money losses…etc. His entire dating experience is a massive net […]
The principles below are important for a man to learn and internalize. You will not read this in some mainstream magazine as those are politically correct drivels with no substance. Let’s talk about the term emotional availability. Emotional availability is a gate. When the gate is closed the person that you’re emotionally unavailable to cannot […]
There’s only one reason why a woman wouldn’t reply to your message : she isn’t interested. Everything else is a lie. No, she didn’t forget. She made a conscious choice. No, it’s not because your message isn’t “alpha” or witty enough. No, an expensive manual on improving your text game will not help. When a […]
Ever since I got involved in the dating game (big mistake), I stumbled upon the statement that women are hit on all the time – online, at work, at the office, on the street…etc. I believed that for a long time, but eventually, my own experience got in the way. Offline Approaches In my […]
In this post, I will explain a phenomenon known as the “Shy Girl Trap” (SGT). Who is the shy girl? Most people are familiar with the Instagram *** type. Those would be women who constantly upload oversexualized photos on their profiles. They’re seemingly living the high life and never miss an opportunity to showcase their […]
Step 1: Accept That It’s Going to Suck The recovery process cannot be painless. If something has the power to build you up, it has the power to destroy you too. The first step is to treat a breakup like an illness. When you get ill, you have no choice but to spend some time […]
1. Corrupted sources A while back, I ended up reading a forum post by a 20-year-old man frustrated with dating. The response that he got was infested with so much nonsense that I couldn’t resist checking the profile of the main person talking to him. It was a beautiful blonde woman. Unsurprisingly, she was telling […]
I have an extended experience on the love battlefield. I’ve done every form of pickup – online dating, cold approaches of strangers, warm approaches of former and present co-workers…etc. I’ve accumulated such a lengthy track record of rejections that sometimes I would be doing a mundane task and a long-forgotten date would resurrect into my […]
Hardcore lifting produces big muscles. You become so massive that you need to change your entire wardrobe. When you return home for the summer to see your relatives, they think you are a movie star or a stripper at the wrong address. Your mom complains to Siri: “Search: my son is using steroids”, but she’s […]
The pick-up industry and bodybuilding share more layers and mechanisms than it appears at first sight. Like wood and stone, they have different structures, but if the colors are flowing, the elements compliment each other nicely. It’s not a coincidence that the scholars of each craft collaborate frequently. After all, men seeking self-improvement for one […]