In this post, I will explain a phenomenon known as the “Shy Girl Trap” (SGT).
Who is the shy girl?
Most people are familiar with the Instagram *** type. Those would be women who constantly upload oversexualized photos on their profiles.
They’re seemingly living the high life and never miss an opportunity to showcase their glutes.
The Shy Girl is the exact opposite. Her Instagram account is either empty or filled with random photos of cute cats and some witty quotes.
When you go out with a shy girl, she doesn’t come to the date wearing a mini skirt or Daisy dukes. She is dressed like a teenage girl returning from a charity event.
She doesn’t talk loudly. You can barely hear her.
She seems innocent too. As if the act of sex doesn’t even exist in her world.
The shy girl seems like a traditional woman that goes to church and may even be a virgin if she is fairly young.
In short, she appears to be the solution to the modern dating problem that males face.
Except she isn’t.
The shy girl is nothing more than the perfect bait.
How do I know that?
Experience. I’ve been on dates with more than a few shy girls. All of them turned out to be just like everybody else.
Below I will describe a couple:
- The Church Shy Girl
She was dressed very well and seemed like a genuinely good person. During the date, she told me that she is a devoted Christian.
It turned out, however, that her so-called church was closer to a sect than an actual church. (I researched it via Google as she invited me to it.)
Not a problem. No one is perfect.
However, I could sense that she was hiding something and looking for a reason to “disqualify me”.
Three days later, I saw her on the street with a fat guy. She was dressed formally and they seemed really into one another. (Almost kissing).
I said “Hello” and went away on my bike. She ignored me.
So, Ms. Shy Girl turned out to be a player.
2. The Student
A while back I went on a date with a student majoring in Chinese philology. She was the shiest woman I’ve met.
The date was awesome and lasted more than 2 hours. Sometimes we were finishing each other’s sentences. She seemed really into me, and I almost had trouble ending the date.
Two days later, I proposed another date and was 99% certain that she will agree.
Instead, I received a beefy paragraph saying how she “doesn’t see me as anything other than a friend, but is still willing to meet me if I am cool with it.”
(Translation: “You’re a nice guy, but I like bad boys. Nonetheless, I am still willing to use you for the company and potentially money.”)
I’ve never been friend-zoned in my life and don’t plan to change that. So, I naturally, said: “No.” and never talked to her again.
Two weeks later, the ultra-shy girl uploaded a photo kissing some fat dude.
3. The Hooker
Many years ago, I went on a date with a woman that dressed and behaved very modestly, almost like a nun.
Later I found out that she’d had sex with 3 different guys in the span of 5 days.
On the outside, you would never guess that she is a mega slut, but she was.
At one point, I had to admit the obvious.
The shy girl may be shy on the outside, but she is still a product of the same environment.
All women carry the same core and want the same type of guy (a tall bad boy).
Shyness is NOT an indication of a high moral code. It just indicates that the person in question has introverted behavior when it comes to communication.
Someone can be shy and yet malicious.
Another important conclusion is that one’s sexual history isn’t always written on the outside.
If you see a woman walking half-naked on the street, it would be logical to conclude that she is promiscuous. Yet this isn’t always the case, although it usually is.
However, a woman can also dress like an angel and yet still sleep with all kinds of men.
You don’t know until you do.
Shy Girls Are in High Demand
The shy girls may appear to be outsiders receiving little interest from men, but this isn’t the case.
Shy girls can actually receive more interest than an 8-10/10 woman.
Why? Because most men naturally see 8-10/10 women as non-reliable, high maintenance and low trust.
The shy girl is the exact opposite….or at least we want her to be. Hence why very often even very attractive men, the type that should be going for the hottest women, hit on shy girls.
This raises the stock of shy girls even more and incentivizes them to increase their standards.
Rejections From Shy Girls Hurt More
Getting rejected by a hot woman isn’t all that painful because it’s easy to soften the blow by saying: “She will reject 99.9% of men anyway. I can be prime Brad Pitt and still get rejected.”
But when you get rejected by some plain shy girl that has neither looks nor personality, it hits harder.
Female Nature Never Changes
Many men are looking for the so-called unicorns. I guess I was one of them.
The shy girls, however, solidified the fact that all women share common non-changing characteristics. My sister helped with that too as I saw how she treats nice guys.
At the end of the day, all women are attracted to the same type of men. Men, on the other hand, like pretty much every girl that isn’t fat.
I am not saying that you should avoid shy girls, but definitely be careful and never let your guard down.
I don’t care if you’re going out with a girl that seems to come from another realm.
If she’s a woman, she will sooner or later show you the core of female nature. It’s a question of when not if.