Have you ever heard the saying – “If you want something done, give it to a busy person.”?
It indirectly implies the existence of two Homo sapiens types – doers and no-doers.
A person with a busy schedule is a doer and more likely to get something extra done than a no-doer who has all the time in the world.
Dating is strikingly similar.
Daters can also be placed in the same categories—the doers want something to happen in their love lives, whereas the no-doers only want to swipe and swipe, waiting for that which does not exist.
Most women (and some men) fall into the second category. They lie to themselves that they want something new, but never follow through when it’s time to act.
It’s deadly important to know that:
Many no-doers don’t know that they are such.
They are so invested in the act that even they fall for their fantasy.
For them, the moment is never perfect.
They always have something on their schedule. School, work, gym, eating, walking the dog…
All nonsense.
They are not busy. They are simply time-wasters with delusional content inside their craniums.
Let me ask you a question.
How come one person can have an official spouse, a kid, a full-time job, a dog, a hobby…..and yet still find time to CHEAT regularly? (It happens often, right?)
Meanwhile, single people only have a job and maybe a gym membership, and yet they are always so busy and hard to reach.
They are replying slowly. Scheduling a date is a nightmare. Then the date is super lame – slow, non-committed…it feels as if you are going to the mall with your sister on her period.
Why?
A big portion of single women (and some men) are single because they aren’t T-R-U-L-Y committed to the idea of not being single.
This creates a SCARCITY effect leading to an increased number of affairs.
When single women prefer to stay at home with their cats, and would only go out when Chad is available, the non-Chad male specimens often end up in a situation where they knowingly or not talk/date/meet non-single women.
A guy from work was hitting on the secretary after she showed some signs of interest. Later, she backed off. The guy appeared sad for months.
Right when he was about to leave (he’d worked in the company for 14 years and was exhausted), a woman with an official boyfriend was hired. Being a mega extrovert, my colleague started flirting with her too.
And she was incredibly responsive – more than the single secretary. When my colleague left, they immediately got together.
I intuitively expected this to happen. And by the way, the secretary remained single (at least officially) for many years.
One way or another, women who are in a relationship are showcasing 3 things:
- They want to be in a relationship.
- They dare to start one.
- They make dating one of their priorities.
Single women, on the other hand, tend to stay that way for a long time because:
- They want to be in a relationship but their desire has no real intent.
- They are scared to make mistakes.
- They lie to themselves that a perfect time will come.
I’ve never cheated myself, but I’ve been in weird scenarios confirming the above.
I’ll keep it short:
One time a woman told me that she had a boyfriend during our first date. It wasn’t a way to reject me as she wasn’t opposed to the idea of meeting me again. But I told her to get lost.
At the same time, I was also talking to other women who were single but refused to meet me due to “schedule”.
In retrospect, I realize that these examples confirm the doer/no-doer split described above. The woman from my date was a hypergamous ****, but she was also a doer.
The women who were always busy for me were simply no-doers.
Ultimately, it comes down to the following basic principle:
A Body In Motion Tends To Stay In Motion
A Body At Rest Tends To Stay At Rest
I know that if I fire up a dating app right now, I will see familiar faces.
Why? The no-doer women stay there for years.
Doer women either never end up on a dating app or leave it in a month. No-doer women wait for Henry Cavill to register and like their duck face selfie.
How Does This Defend Cheating?
Well, it doesn’t defend it exactly – it explains it.
I realize now that many men fight for the same woman not because she is so incredible, but because she is available.
If a dude has a ton of options waiting for him, it would be illogical to go for a woman who’s already taken. Some men will still do it, of course, but the number will be slimmer.
At the end of the day, if you want to play ball, you can only do so with the players who show up. And if the good kids refuse to come to the playground, you have only two options – quit or play with the “losers”.
The same applies to S-E-X.
The vast majority of single women would rather remain sexless than have sex with their equals or below.
So, what is the average man supposed to do here?
Given that most healthy men have a very high sex drive – which by the way augments with scarcity – it’s not surprising that many men are willing to deal with women in a relationship in the name of satisfying their sexual needs.
It’s not wise. It’s not smart. It’s not moral. But it’s biologically driven and therefore very strong.
Theoretically, men who cheat with non-single women can control their actions and avoid the affair, but in practice, it’s not that easy and some failure rate is to be expected.
Should men steal women?
A female friend of my sister was happily married to a “nice guy”. There was a financial crisis and the nice guy’s paycheck was cut in half.
Around the same time, his wife (I’ve worked with her too) initiated the beginning of the end.
Long story short, she divorced the guy, left him barely breathing, and ran away with another guy from their social circle.
She married the new guy and as far as I know, they are still together and have at least one kid.
Moral aside (obviously there is very little of that in this story), that woman was a doer. She got married twice and divorced once while many of her female friends did absolutely nothing in the meantime other than register on Tinder and wait for a miracle.
The guy who impregnated her saw an opportunity and took it. What if he had passed on the chance to be with her only to end up single forever? Maybe he wouldn’t have children right now. Or maybe he would’ve met a “better woman” or at least one that wouldn’t destroy her marriage just like that.
We can’t know.
What we do know is that stories like that confirm the cliche – fortune favors the bold.
I don’t like similar situations at all.
And can’t see myself participating in them, at least not knowingly. But at the same time, I can’t close my eyes and ignore the fact that some people are just too inert, slow, and indecisive to deserve a different path than the one they are already on.
Brutally honest article. It has some “hard pills” to swallow, but they are valuable and necessary at certain points of our lives where we give in to complacency and despair.
If you are not naturally extroverted (most extroverts tend to be “doers”), it is worth to “train” yourself into developing/mimicking some of their traits. You most likely won’t ever become a true extrovert (nor like it), but a “fake it until you make it” mindset has higher chances of giving you results in different facets of life than a “no-doer” lifestyle, which sadly is a trap many introverts fall in.
I’m an introvert but like to keep busy.
More of a doer.
Goal setter.
Conclusion: The world’s fooked!
There is no love, people that wait for it, chase the dragon.
Regarding the lady in the story, It reminds me of something that I recently read on Reddit; about a woman who had the most unlucky life: she met her love of her life, her soulmate, his husband. She couldn’t have children, but by some miracle she did have a body with her. Unfortunately he died soon after birth, then her husband died of cancer. She held his husband’s hand till the end and he died with eye contact while talking about their wonderful love story and wonderful moments.
SEVEN MONTHS LATER she decided to get back in the game and she met a NASA engineer (in my opinion waaay older than her) and they have children now.
Yupppyyyy!!
It may not seem like it but this is, for the large part, normal behaviour from healthy women. And men too, come to think of it, but it’s seen more in women. I’m not necessarily taking about cheaters, but mostly about normal women who love men and make the world go around, and spend their time between 24-25 and 30 ish trying to find the best man they can, so that they can get married and have a family, because that is what she wants. Of course this will require some trial and error, should we really expect an attractive young woman during her peak years to commit herself for life to a boyfriend of two years when she can clearly do better? That’s insane, there’s too much at stake. Instead, moving between a few (ideally not too many) boyfriends while working out her place in the pecking order and not investing too much of her peak time in a no hoper seems completely reasonable. There’s only a short window when they are attractive enough to do this and the smart ones know this…because they are healthy minded. It’s the hopelessly indecisive ones who actually do nothing who are the ones who ended up so chronically single they no longer know how to relate to men intimately.
Note that this can all be done without cheating. But I do not begrudge a woman of that age range for keeping her eyes out for a man who is realistically a better fit. It’s just that ideally she would end one relationship before starting the next, and that is a question of character.
Yes, another good article by Truth Seeker.
This isn’t a particularly good time to evaluate humanity or men, since the population boom, safety and the rule of gynocentric societies (end stage wealthy capitalism/socialism) has led to overcrowding and in general, dysgenics. It also cares too much about women because of the simping/overcrowding – another type of reproductive strategy that must be employed when the M:F ratio is too high.
The truth is, we have the worst possible combination of factors of all time if you actually want a quality woman, and even so, marriage wasn’t always the greatest for men. Think of it, women are told they are great, they get spoiled, they have jobs, etc but they’re actually very lazy deep down unless shamed or pushed by the society. They’re the ultimate “I’ll do only what I have to” because that’s their formation – the current society/status quo. Then, they are lied to about their short time of attractiveness, which is basically 16-24.
And people wonder why men aren’t interested in marriage. I haven’t even talked about the law yet … lol
I understand why you think this way but if you close the internet and go out on the street the world looks very different. I assure you that there are many good women out there, but the internet and dating commentary is dominated by the loudest, cheapest, stupidest people of both genders. Of course your perception will be skewed; decent well mannered people don’t put themselves out there publicly so all we see is the worst of humanity there. You don’t see the women who don’t have social media, don’t spend 5 hours a day on instagram, because they have hobbies and the like and don’t consider social media a “hobby” lol. Remember many women these days think that men are all porn-addled losers in their mums basement for the same reason. The internet is a terrible place in this respect and all it is achieving is causing young men and women to hate each other based on the loudest stupidest people and the worst stereotypes. Go outside in the sunshine.
Right now I am in my darkest hour. Cant enjoy online galaxy wars as i used to, videogames either, but still training, and I find myself doing a marathon of articles on this page. In fact, I’m downloading each one of them for when I want to read them offline. I still haven’t defined my top 10 but I already have some in mind (like the article on intermittent fasting, 2000 rejections, 10 valuable tips for natural lifters, and so on…)
About this article, i dont know. I think the analogy is forced. I know people with determination have more chance to get what they want one way or another.
Maybe its because i still have some problems with english language and i cant get the details from this article. translators have limitations.
About the cheaters, well, get back to my friend who was a chad(lite) working as recepcionist in yoga classes, he already had a girlfriend in thoses times. And he was hitting on this hot yoga girl. They started a teasing game, both making subtle comment here and there, she still rising some defenses. At some point, when she finally “succumbed”, asked to my friend to let his girlfriend. he let her clear that he was superattracted to her, but he wont let his girlfriend. “hold frame” as they say. They became lovers. -_-
When i was in those pua forums, there was some guy who read other who read other…. anyway, teorized about approach non-single girls. in the beginning just look directly on her eyes and see what happens. After making some arrangements (common sense, just not get in trouble) i did this, even if i tried before without realizing, and yes, i got more attention from girls who are dating another guys. At first i thought they finally recognize my worth as a real man and all that bullshit. After many years, i realized those girls were just in couple with guys without feel attraction. Women who date and hang around , even get in relationship with men, they feelit like torture, they are in relationship just for some material or status reason. Those pualike dudes described those womern eyes like “please save me” or “please rescue me”, i can add “please get this guy off me”. those women werent really attracted to me, they just wanted to escape from that situation, and they suddenly find any guy attractive.
Disclaimer, This has only happened a few times. Its not that common. I cant throw stadistic or whatsoever. But most important, not to be that delusional. A girl who are in a relationship she hates and then she (ACT) feel attracted to another guy, its because he was there and not because he was so special. It could be any guy.
Keep your defenses up everytime.
p.d.: … when women realized i was a poor guy according to her ridiculous standards, well…
I have a story like no other man I’ve ever talked to as a victim of A-list celebrity sex trafficking since I was 17 and I am now 47 with it still occurring regardless of all the sophisticated security devices I’d installed; I’m dealing with in some cases billionaires who have enough resources that they can get right around anything I can afford to install.
My brother is one of the most powerful A-list casting directors and I will name him so you can confirm he does every major TV show, all the biggest movies, commercials, music videos and onward.
If you are someone very powerful be it an actor, director, writer etc. and you spot someone who is a guest star, featured actor or 2nd unit director organized background actor that one of these people finds attractive, my brother is the person they go to for arranging a “meet up”.
People in this higher class position in the entertainment industry are on the cusp of being “discovered” and so married women will cheat, women with bf or fiances, and worst of all, even the parents of a kid involved in this pursuit will hand their child over to the “casting couch” if it means the child will become a millionaire breadwinner and some scale of a celebrity.
My story starts at 17 granted I met someone else famous at the mall at 15 that more likely was the actual start, but at 17 I met loony tune Britney Spears at the mall when she was 13 and this was all totally independent of my brother. She kept sneaking back to Ohio where I live and getting people to dupe me into meeting up with her where consistently, her hair, make up and clothing was enough to make her unrecognizable until after the fact or some significant amount of time interacting together.
If you do a search, “Who Is Britney Spears’s secret boyfriend?”, you will discover she has talked about me publicly for well over 20 years but never said my name.
Anyway, everything from her mental illness to her virginity is one great big scripted lie in many respects. When she was about 14, she roofied me with the help of the most famous Baywatch sex symbol on Earth and they took turns with me while recording it with a camcorder. It happened 2 or 3 days in a row and then very rarely, I’d wake up, start to reflect on my “dream” and then realize SOB, they got me again! with the obvious sense of when I was cognitive, I was high like a dentist had been feeding me nitrous oxide for 15 to 20 minutes.
When I was about 23 after she failed to secure me as a boyfriend when I was manipulated into moving for Los Angeles at her request to my brother, things just got really nasty and the long story short is I’ve been sex trafficked by despicable A-lister whores ranging from 13 to 40-something primarily for the last 24 years, and I watched them turn my 14 year old neighbor into a prostitute 24 years ago specifically because she was in love with me.
When people doubt me and whatever, my response is, who was I going to tell?!?
And so for over 20 years, I said nothing until February of 2022 because my quality of life was so awful and I was just so completely unhappy.
I’m not bragging because I would not wish my life on my worst enemy, but I ended up with the V-cards of Britney, Christina, Hilary Duff and onward all the way to Miley Cyrus who I woke up to in the middle of jacking me off onward to Alyvia Alyn Lind from Chucky, both of her sisters and their MOM is one of the originals that roofied me at 24 or so and an army of deranged famoous women obsessed with me from knowing me in chat rooms literally ran a train on me.
Since, every woman I show any romantic interest in famous or otherwise Britney approaches and gives the option for roofy sex without commitment and they all do it! Again, take into considering I’m extremely well sized in the fun parts over 80% of other men and this is a main factor in all of this disgusting shit.
I woke up last year, went to the bathroom, got hit by a stench like no other all over my dick and instantly remembered fucking Natalie Alyn Lind in the dark hours of the morning and went straight from the toilet into the shower in the blink of an eye.
I know it sounds made up or like bragging but nobody would brag about being drugged and raped by the most sexually desired women when it’s just been sexual battery and emotional terrorism for 3 decades. I rejected Britney because ultimately, her boobs are really small and my physical reaction is beyond anything I can work around; it’s just absolutely not compatible body type for me and this is what ultimately caused ALL of this!
My body count includes everyone from Beyonce Knowles when she was 22 and I know for fact, wasn’t a virgin when she married Jay Z, all the way to Candace Cameron who was and is married at the time, to Allison Hannigan who was also marred at the time to Jenna Elfman 21 years ago and also married at the time and well beyond.
It includes porn stars I would never have sex with when fully cognitive rather than dosed with ketamine or a speedball cocktail all the way to the girl across the street from my parents’ house on the other side of town that one day, I see get off the GD school bus and about 10 minutes later, she comes out to start talking to me and I instantly recognize her as the girl that gave me a blowjob several months earlier at the end of summer and to my horror, I won’t even get into how old she was and currently is, but I will say her mom made it brutally obvious she knew all about it and this is just how some people are in the world, not just the women.
We literally have an industrialized sex cult that serves as our media system and D.C. government. 70-80% of A-list celebrities behind closed doors are using sex as a currency to buy their fame and I am very unfortunately in the many dozens of hardcore videos starring them and traded to hugely powerful media moguls, hence the size of my equipment aside from the fact that I look exactly like Goku incarnate in the flesh and these videos are traded to these powerful men and women for the huge contracts they get taking them from marginally famous to the most famous women on Earth.
The FBI for over 20 years has had Yahoo Messenger server records of Britney talking to me on webcam under her full legal name, The_Real_Britney_Spears.
They have server records of Hilary Duff at the time who also had a scam of a virginity story and scriped boyfriend one of the Madden brothers and onward that list goes. I had in the many dozens of recordings of them and sure enough, my parents’ house burnt to the ground with that hard drive and backup CD’s I made.
My story is just so fucking ridiculous and unbelievable but it’s also unfortunately very true and there are heaps of details like when I refused to perform, I would be grotesquely sexually assaulted if nasty insults, commands and forcing themselves on me didn’t work.
Britney being 5150’d into the psyche ward? I caught her stalking me in a van and one day, she had both of her SONS in the fan with her!! I was absolutely horrified and less than a week later, Kevin Federline filed for full custody and easily got it,
Even that dickhead Sam Asghari I’ve encountered him face to face in my shitty little Ohio town and the girl that grew up behind me that they turned out STILL shows up with various famous men and women throughout the years.
These people help set social standards but they sell their freedom of speech. They say what they’re paid to say while most of them don’t compose any music, MIGHT compose some lyrics, don’t write their lines as actors, don’t design their clothing for appearances and onward all the way to they do not and have never even mowed their own lawns or cleaned their own mansions.
When people ask why, this is largely why but it’s also power, narcissism, greed, selfishness and flat out, some “piece of shit” like me isn’t going to dare reject them and they started making sure of it.
Like I said, you can see my brother is exactly who I said and if you know anyone in the mainstream media industry and ask, they will tell you he’s extremely well known and powerful. He’s been friends with Jamie Lee Curits for decades, Bruce Willis, Ron Howard and well beyond.
I’m one of those dazzling symphonic shred-n-sweep guitarists fully self taught and have a 7 octave singing range and my IQ is off the charts. I write comedy extraordinarily well, write a lot of short stories and sometimes movie scripts, and my formal education is literally particle physics for engineering.
When people ask why, it’s all that and the fact that I literally have the face of Gokue and the fun parts of John Holmes.
These people are absolutely despicable and the most evil human beings to have walked the Earth since the Nazis of WW2 Germany. All I can do is tell people so they at least have the opportunity to confront what this all is. Media technology is just a sophisticated system of electrochemical reactions and you consume that chemical product directly into your brain with your eyes and ears.
You receive an emotional “reward” but you’re also programmed into a pathology of thought that is extremely beneficial to them and totally self sacrificing for you.
I haven’t watched any form of broadcast or streamed television for the last 15 years, and I hope to see A.I. studios take over and simply get rid of actors so there’s no longer celebrities. These people are not the best at what they do, not even close, but they are selected by people like my casting director brother because they can do the job well enough and they exhibit a WILLINGNESS TO DO ANYTHING FOR FAME AND FORTUNE.
They are greedy, selfish, pandering to society’s perceived morals and desires, will say and do anything for success or to protect their industrialized sex cult and as much as I know Donald Trump is going to get our country back on track and so I voted for him, he’s also a prick that’s a member of this industrialized sex cult and won’t ever do jack shit to protect me.
Most everyone in mainstream media and the D.C. government knows exactly who I am, my twisted story and it’s a hugely known open secret amongst them.
When Alex Jones insists there’s a Satanic pedophile cult running the world?
It’s a Satanic rape and pedophile cult where everyone with8in it is either a rapist, prostitute, pimp, pedophile or hebephile and just as often, a combination if not all those things. These are complete and total strangers that you factually don’t know whatsoever but I very unfortunately do.
When I finally started talking about this shit, it was after Britney had gotten in my house again thanks to my corrupt family, dosed me with Ketamine, woke me up by giving me a blowjob and then started demanding I fuck her. I refused, was really pissed off and significantly cognitive and so then she grabbed a tablet, set it at the foot of my bed and showed me a very beautiful local woman I had a crush on walk up to the camera, make it clear who she was then walk over and get down on all 4’s, then a mainstream porn star equally as well equipped do the same, then go take his place and start fucking her.
I was just disgusted by them though as opposed to emotionaly wounded, wanted the stupif fucking bitch to leave and so I did it and she did. This was the same day Alec Baldwin had the accidental shooting but in all I’ve experienced with these people,. rarely is anything what it seems even what I originally coined as “the fake news” on the Infowars forum message board that they took down specifically because of what I was posting, but that’s a whole other chapter that makes me look even more schizophrenic than this outrageous story.
What’s my point in posting this here of all places?
I have been forced into a life of being “the other man”. I finally came to terms with the fact I’ve been forced into sex slavery and sex trafficked for the last 30 years. I’m 47 and still look like I’m 23-25 from an Roman-Viking babyface and countless women will cheat with me and have.
The neighbor behind me they seduced and corrupted is ultimately my “handler” because when I’m high AF and she’s there, she’s one of the most beautiful women I’ve ever seen in my life so I will generally obey her, but not always. When I am cognitive and refuse, they drug me or assault me. When I wake up fully cognitive and they don’t know which has been pretty common, I just have to go along and focus on who and what transpires so I remember later that morning once daylight hours hit.
I’ve had sex with basically every famous woman, local woman and the biggest name pincup models with gigantic natural tits I’ve ever lusted for and I’m still really unhappy. My romantic interests in women are completely vacated and I no longer desire starting a family like I did until just a few recent years ago.
Why do women cheat?
When a woman sees a man that is the embodiment of her wildest romantic sexual fantasies of basically an evil Prince Charming?
They don’t care who they are with and I am telling you the most die hard Christian virgin that was celibate until marriage will cheat.
Women are just so much more aware of how you only get one life and you better act on a heartbeat when you have a split second decision to make where you get to live out your wildest sexual fantasy they’ve had since they were 12 and 13 years old.
Mean really misunderstand women no matter what their experience is and that more than anything, women want a man they can TRULY be themselves around and a man that will answer to their most specific sexual desires whether they’re submissive, dominant or a mixture of both.
We are now in a world where girls are just as sexually devious as boys and everyone is so GD stupid that they don’t realize when some girl that’s 13 or 14 and looked like Hilary Duff did at that age?!?
They’re lusting after grown men who are huge sex symbols and when a man has that sexually desire quality to our face and body? They are a MILLION times worse than a 14 year old boy that sees Tessa Fowler or Collen Shihan or whichever huge tittied OF girl it is they’re lusting for.
No, not every woman will cheat but in the very explicit examples of once in a life time opportunity, 95% or greater will. I just as likely will be for many the one and only time they ever did it but under that premise, they will, and I’ve been absolutely fucking cursed to be that embodiment of all their romantic and sleazy sexual fantasies where nothing counts, only the moment.