Therapy is practically useless and impotent in most cases. It can’t solve your problems but can ironically augment them and slow down healing. It could also be an immoral business. Talking About Your Problems Is Helpful But Only To a Point The main value of therapy is that you export some of your thoughts and […]
I am about to tell you a secret. Most of our attempts to change fail for one of the following reasons: 1/We want the impossible. 2/Destiny says no. 3/ We can’t detach from the state that we want to change. The first point is easy to overcome – just focus on gradual steps. If you […]
They are selling you a fake dream….again. One of the consistent narratives in the manospherific community is that males become more valuable as they age….and therefore you can still win the game as an older man. I’ve heard some of the gurus say that even 60+ men in their “private cold approach group” are “killing […]
I am about to do two things. First, I am going to expose the Fake Law of Attraction (FLoA) that’s been sold to the naive public by a great number of conscious and unconscious charlatans. Then, I am going to present the REAL Law of Attraction (RLoA) (don’t expect magic). According to the FLoA, you […]
Who do you think is your biggest rival in the world of romance? Who’s gonna take your current or future girl? -The 6’5″, blue eyes, trust fund, muscular, 190 IQ guy in finance? No. The millionaire son who spends more on breakfast than you do on a car? No. The “gifted” pro athlete? No. The […]
In this article, I present a simple program to reduce social media usage and protect yourself from it. Excerpt: Most people are in an abusive relationship with social media and the intensity is only getting stronger despite what we used to predict in the past. The brutal truth is that social media usage has never […]
There are fundamental and incredibly obvious flaws with the theory behind self-improvement. In the big scheme of things, self-improvement is nothing but a treadmill for keeping people engaged. Here’s how the self-improvement money printer REALLY works: Step 1: Find your target audience. The target audience are people who aren’t happy and want more. Or in […]
One of my biggest dating mistakes (there are many) was talking to lukewarm women. It resulted in the most pain, wasted time, and a lot of frustration. And I wish, I’d become wiser earlier, but it is what it is. We have to live with the consequences of our actions as best as we can. […]
The last post had a part called – The Difference Between Intent and Wishes. That little section got a little more attention than I originally expected. And I decided to expand it a bit for further clarification. Here’s the reality of the situation, fellas. More often than not people who allegedly “intend” to do something, […]
I will never forget that day. I was waiting for a van loaded with IKEA-style furniture (particle boards) to arrive. (We were renovating.) After 10 minutes, the delivery guys dropped the packages in front of the building entrance and left. At the time, I was a skinny 17-year-old skater boy with strength levels limited to […]
Disclaimer: I am NOT associated with any of the brands mentioned here. I’ve purchased those products with my own money, and the conclusions below are based solely on my experience. How It All Started… Hello, I am Truth Seeker, a recovering energy drink addict. My addiction began many years ago when I decided to lose […]
The modern male self-improvement leaders have been pushing their recruits to wage war on sleep for a long time. A while ago Arnold told us that we need to “sleep faster” if we want success. Unsurprisingly, other manosphere influencers exercising the role of global leaders such as the Tate brothers agree. In a video, Tristan […]