Many commonly accepted “facts” are true, but only when you reverse them. 😉 Examples: Cereal is good for you. Hard work always pays off. You can get big naturally. You create your own reality. …and many other hallucinations that you see in anti-social media posts. But today, I am going to talk about a big […]
Today, I will tell you why the red pill doesn’t work in the most blunt fashion that I can. Reason 1: It purposefully confuses symptoms for leverage. The ultimate reason why the red pill fails is that it sells peripheral behavior, a.k.a. symptoms, to people as a form of leverage. A sample of red pill […]
Many people read my posts and directly or silently pose a common “reactive” question: “Cool story, bro. But what is the solution?” My short answer: there isn’t a solution, at least not a mathematical one. Let’s start with the dating drama presented 1000s of times on this site. In short, unless you can figure out […]
One of the harshest realities of life is as follows: If you win (no matter the means), you are praised.If you lose (no matter the effort), you are ridiculed. That’s the rule.The unwritten law. Imagine the following situation. One man tries really hard to achieve something (e.g., find a job). He sends 100s of CVs, […]
1/ The worst things in your life happen when you don’t expect them. If I learned anything in this life, it’s that the most brutal situations/moments in your life come when you expect them least. This is a rule as strong as gravity. I am mega serious. And this is one “hack” that you can […]
Son, I am about to shatter your entrepreneurial wet dreams. The system doesn’t care about making you rich. It only cares about feeding off of you and spanking you when you misbehave. But it can’t say that to your face. So, instead, it sells you a dream so that you cook yourself like the perfect […]
Have you ever heard the saying – “If you want something done, give it to a busy person.”? It indirectly implies the existence of two Homo sapiens types – doers and no-doers. A person with a busy schedule is a doer and more likely to get something extra done than a no-doer who has all […]
People rarely get depressed because of a bad situation. True depression comes because you can’t see a clear path out. Despite what motivational speakers (and their modern equivalents) are saying, it’s not so easy to dig yourself out of a hole even if you are willing to do the work. When you want to escape […]
A while back I decided to do dedicated forearm training including some arm wrestling exercises and grip routines. I made the needed equipment out of wood and spare parts. It worked well. One time while doing my routine, I couldn’t help it and admitted the obvious: I felt stupid. I had to ask myself the […]
Many professors in the manosphere (and in other self-improvement segments) are super focused on maximizing TSW (time spent working). Hence they allegedly wake up at 5 in the morning, wrestle an alligator, eat 600 grams of protein, do some meditation, and then “seize the day”. As always – it’s all nonsense…and I am here to […]
Therapy is practically useless and impotent in most cases. It can’t solve your problems but can ironically augment them and slow down healing. It could also be an immoral business. Talking About Your Problems Is Helpful But Only To a Point The main value of therapy is that you export some of your thoughts and […]
I am about to tell you a secret. Most of our attempts to change fail for one of the following reasons: 1/We want the impossible. 2/Destiny says no. 3/ We can’t detach from the state that we want to change. The first point is easy to overcome – just focus on gradual steps. If you […]