Here’s a rule that I made for myself as a result of my dating experience. You obviously don’t have to follow it as you should always make your own decisions. Nonetheless, some people may be interested to hear it as it comes from experience rather than imagination. The rule is: Always go for the kiss […]
The Internet is full of people giving you nice-sounding quotes coming from elite businessmen who are richer than 99% of the population. The advice sounds intelligent and coherent, but it’s actually empty, useless and non-actionable. The problems are: People are focused on peripheral habits that have non-direct or any effect on the end result. E.g., […]
I remember the first time I watched Fight Club. It was on a summer day after I’d returned home from my first job as a teenager. (I worked as a spammer filling people’s mailboxes.) I didn’t get the movie at the time. I was half asleep and thought that it was too loud. The woman […]
You’ve probably heard the stories about politicians and businessmen who have an entire wardrobe of the same suit to minimize the number of decisions made in a day. Instead of wondering “what should I wear?”, you just wake up and put on an outfit that has already proven to be comfortable and of adequate appearance. […]
There are two groups of reasons for a person’s situation: 1. External/Non-changeable This is the strongest group and has the highest impact on your life. It is also 100% unchangeable regardless of one’s wishes or effort. The external factors are but not limited to: Historical, political, and geographical context One time I was chatting with […]
Near the end of March, my grandmother entered a critical condition. Eventually, she went into a coma and died the next day. She spent 2.5 weeks in a state that I wouldn’t wish on anyone. Throughout the entire period parts of her brain were shutting down to the point where she lost the ability to […]
Do you want to know what’s the biggest drug in the world right now? The Internet Everybody is on it. It’s not only super addicting but also cheap, accessible, and promoted more than simple carbohydrates. Every day we spend a brutal amount of time looking at a screen. But the device itself isn’t behind the […]
A while back a reader asked me: “Why do women have so much power on the dating market?” To fully answer this question, one has to go philosophical and dig into the occult. At the time, however, I didn’t feel like exercising the philosopher in mе. I wanted to focus on the practical and simply […]
The term “incel” stands for involuntarily celibate. Some say that it describes a very small minority of men who spend most of their awake hours producing misogynistic content and playing video games while rotting in a dirty garage and heaving poisonous sighs, but that’s not actually true. The reality is that most average men have […]
When I was a kid, I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life. But there was one fact that I recognized with the certainty of death – I was a boy. At the time, most children were like me – we were either boys or girls. No one was identifying as […]
People are like computers. Our senses are periphery [input channels] transferring data to the processor [the brain] which renders it and selects a reactionary output expressed through the musculoskeletal system. The code that we process is a first-person adventure game known as Life. The architects of this world are aware of this mechanism. They monitor, […]
The inception of nattyornot.com created a reaction combining opposing sentiments – people were interested in learning who is natural and yet loathed hearing about the actual limits that natty bodybuilders face. This dynamic reveals the possession of a confused brain searching for answers. I went through the same phase myself and kept going through it even while writing […]