Have you ever heard the saying – “If you want something done, give it to a busy person.”? It indirectly implies the existence of two Homo sapiens types – doers and no-doers. A person with a busy schedule is a doer and more likely to get something extra done than a no-doer who has all […]
People rarely get depressed because of a bad situation. True depression comes because you can’t see a clear path out. Despite what motivational speakers (and their modern equivalents) are saying, it’s not so easy to dig yourself out of a hole even if you are willing to do the work. When you want to escape […]
A while back I decided to do dedicated forearm training including some arm wrestling exercises and grip routines. I made the needed equipment out of wood and spare parts. It worked well. One time while doing my routine, I couldn’t help it and admitted the obvious: I felt stupid. I had to ask myself the […]
Many professors in the manosphere (and in other self-improvement segments) are super focused on maximizing TSW (time spent working). Hence they allegedly wake up at 5 in the morning, wrestle an alligator, eat 600 grams of protein, do some meditation, and then “seize the day”. As always – it’s all nonsense…and I am here to […]
Therapy is practically useless and impotent in most cases. It can’t solve your problems but can ironically augment them and slow down healing. It could also be an immoral business. Talking About Your Problems Is Helpful But Only To a Point The main value of therapy is that you export some of your thoughts and […]
I am about to tell you a secret. Most of our attempts to change fail for one of the following reasons: 1/We want the impossible. 2/Destiny says no. 3/ We can’t detach from the state that we want to change. The first point is easy to overcome – just focus on gradual steps. If you […]
The last post had a part called – The Difference Between Intent and Wishes. That little section got a little more attention than I originally expected. And I decided to expand it a bit for further clarification. Here’s the reality of the situation, fellas. More often than not people who allegedly “intend” to do something, […]
Regular readers are probably familiar with the concept of training cycles as I’ve written about it in articles and books. But for those who don’t know, I’ll summarize. A training cycle works like this: You start light and gradually build to a heavy weight over time. When things get tough, you drop the weight. You […]
I wish I knew this before… One of my biggest rookie mistakes in the painful labyrinth known as dating is believing the idea that one must actively try to change the circumstances… It took me a while to realize that this is nonsense for the most part, and I adjusted my strategy to something a […]
1. You don’t learn the truth. You find the truth within yourself. Or should I say you grow up to the truth that has always been in your DNA… 2. After a while, you don’t need natty or not reviews. You instantaneously know whether someone is injecting or not. 3. Nobody joins a gym for […]
Fitness influencers (and male motivators in general) love the idea of consistency. “Just be consistent, bro.” it will come to you one day. One cannot deny the need to be disciplined and persistent. You can’t build even a dog house without some “consistency”. But very often, the idea of consistency is used as a camouflage […]
Disclaimer: I am NOT associated with any of the brands mentioned here. I’ve purchased those products with my own money, and the conclusions below are based solely on my experience. How It All Started… Hello, I am Truth Seeker, a recovering energy drink addict. My addiction began many years ago when I decided to lose […]