A while back a reader asked me: “Why do women have so much power on the dating market?”
To fully answer this question, one has to go philosophical and dig into the occult. At the time, however, I didn’t feel like exercising the philosopher in mе. I wanted to focus on the practical and simply said: “Leverage”.
What is leverage?
Leverage a.k.a. mechanical advantage is a system/tool which amplifies your output/results per unit of effort.
The most basic example would be a lever or a pry bar.
When you zoom in, you will find out that all power comes from leverage.
Examples of Leverage On The Dating Market
Part 1: Women
Women have the following levers when it comes to modern dating:
1. Digital infrastructure
Women rule social media and dating apps.
An average woman on a dating app gets an unlimited number of matches and texts whereas an average man receives disappointment unless his lottery luck activates.
Women know it, consciously or not, and stay on those digital islands because they love the attention and the admiration that they receive seconds upon uploading a new pic.
2. Smartphones (texting…etc.)
Smartphones and texting form a huge dating lever never seen before in history.
In the past, one had to be physically present in someone’s company to flirt with them. Today, an average woman selling shoes in the mall can be talking to football stars and singers in her lunch break.
Not only that, but the exchanges are close to anonymous. Unless the other party shares a screenshot or opens their mouth no one would know of the communication.
3. Cultural shifts
Hating men and praising women has been the norm for a long time.
10 years ago, a local male singer competing against a female performer said that she is better than him simply because she is a woman. I don’t think there’s a need to point out what’s wrong with this mentality.
Men are doubting and hating themselves. We are led to believe that everything wrong in the world is the result of something that our male ancestors have done.
Simultaneously, the media is propagating concepts poisonous to a healthy relationship between a man and a woman. Polyamory would be one of them.
4. The Justice System
Most women get the kids plus steady alimony after a divorce. The law seems to favor females when it comes to separation.
The sexual revolution and modern degeneracy wouldn’t reach their current heights without contraception in the form of pills, condoms…etc.
Three years ago, a teenage girl in the gym proudly stated in my presence that she’d slept with 20+ men. None of this would be possible without contraception because the repercussions would be too great.
Without “safety precautions”, the sexual conquests outside of a stable relationship would decrease (not stop) because people would fear STDs and unwanted pregnancies.
When I hear the word “abortion”, I feel a mix of disgust and sadness pass through me.
I’m sorry for the women that go through this procedure and consider the entire thing perverted. My being just doesn’t agree with it.
In my humble opinion, the only legitimate reason for an abortion is a condition that threatens the baby or the mother.
A while back, I watched a degenerate show in which one of the characters was criticizing a judge who’d outlawed abortion in a state.
Her reasoning was as follows: “A girl shouldn’t ruin her life at 15 due to some old dude’s opinion.”
Here’s my response to that: maybe 15-year-old kids shouldn’t be creating opportunities for unwanted pregnancies in the first place.
How does abortion create leverage for a woman?
Ultimately, abortion is a form of late contraception allowing women and their male partners to get away with promiscuous behavior.
If those options didn’t exist, women and men would be more careful who they sleep with it, and a lot of the degeneracy wouldn’t have a basis to exist.
8. Government support + Protection
In the past, a woman needed a man to protect her and “lift the heavy boxes”. Today, she can get that assistance from the state. As a consequence, the average woman has a lower incentive to settle for a regular guy. Instead, she chooses to “find herself”. You know the rest…
9. Sex and Offspring Gatekeepers
What do people say when a man has sex with a woman?
“He got lucky.”
This expression clearly indicates that the ultimate decision is not made by the man because “luck” is technically outside of someone’s control. Who makes the decision for a man to get lucky? The woman.
Since women play the role of sex gatekeepers, they gain a strong advantage (lever) that can be used to control a man.
More importantly, the woman decides whether a man will have a chance to reproduce or not.
Part 2: Men
The average man has weak leverage on the current daring market. However, there’s a group of males who enjoy the same or even greater benefits than women do. Those individuals are commonly known as “hot guys”, “handsome alphas”, “ballers” and of course “Chads”.
Here’s a list of levers that those individuals have on their side:
1. Social media + Dating apps
Just like women, hot guys can secure romantic and sexual experiences anonymously via a smartphone. They only need a handful of photos and an Internet connection.
The demand for hot guys has never been greater. It has always existed, of course, but today, it’s reaching unparalleled proportions.
In the past, women were dating guys from their social circles. Today, the average woman is expanding. She wants men from the upper echelons, and society is not pressuring her to get married.
In consequence, the shares of average guys drop whereas the value of top-tier men rises even more.
That scarcity gives a handful of men the leverage needed to date all kinds of women with ease.
3. Visual focus
We live in a highly visual world where appearance is more important than actions and character. If you aren’t attractive, you wouldn’t match the success of hot guys on dating apps even if you save an entire village from death.
Massive wealth is always the result of great leverage.
Why are football stars richer than average people? Hard work?
Tell it to the coal miners spending 10+ hours underground.
It’s not hard work but leverage.
What leverage does a coal miner have to make more money? Over time, he will become faster and develop greater endurance, but the upgrade will never be enough because his product/service cannot be sold to multiple people simultaneously.
Conversely, a popular singer or a sports superstar is technically offering a service to millions of people all at once thanks to technology, media exposure, and the emphasis that human society puts on spectacles.
Hard work is pointless for money printing unless it gets you to a position of high leverage.
If you want to get rich, you should be increasing your leverage rather than continuing to use a shorter lever “harder”.
How do governments control people?
Through levers such as:
- Money. They have more money than all of us and can influence economic processes.
- Force. The system has claimed autonomy on force and violence through military forces, police, and secret services that we don’t even know of.
- Knowledge. The architects may be evil, but that doesn’t change the fact that they know more about this world than the average person. They leverage their cultural and spiritual knowledge in their favor.
- Laws. All laws except God’s are written by humans. In some states, you can use drugs in others you can’t because the people there have decided so. Those behind human laws have great leverage on everyone.
When a member of a group misbehaves, the levers above are used against him/her.
Behind politics, you find force. And behind force, you find weapons. For that reason, the system wants to have a monopoly on truly powerful weaponry.
In some cities, people aren’t allowed to carry even a basic knife.
What is the logic behind the disarmament of the masses?
They want to save you from the bad guys, right? No. They want to save themselves from you.
They achieve that safety by keeping common people domesticated.
Can you imagine what kind of leverage the masses would have with a deadly weapon in the hands?
Why do people want a good education for their children?
Because highly-educated people have leverage on the job market. With enough training, almost anyone can work as a cashier, a janitor or some sort of hygienist. The people doing those jobs have low leverage because their skill set isn’t unique.
Conversely, a skilled surgeon or dentist has great leverage because very few people can match his capabilities.
What multiplies a natural’s leverage?
Technically, a natural gains leverage against atrophy by training hard and following a good diet.
E.g., A guy doing compound lifts and eating eggs has an advantage over a dude relying on triceps kickbacks and a diet of waffles.
However, training and eating “right” is a lever that cannot be lengthened without becoming unnatural.
By taking steroids, non-naturals greatly increase their leverage and get more muscle mass for the same or even less effort.
If people excel in a lift, it’s because their skeleton offers extra leverage when performing that specific movement.
For example, I have long arms, and deadlifts are “easier” for me whereas bench pressing is miserable.
All the cheats and tweaks (e.g., quarter monolift sumo squats, knee wraps…etc.) have become part of powerlifting because they increase one’s leverage when performing a lift.
Focus On The Elements That Increase Your Leverage
The first step to benefiting from the aforementioned principle is to determine the qualities and actions that increase your leverage in regards to a specific goal.
The second is to focus directly on them while ignoring peripheral habits (e.g., waking up early) that do not necessarily increase your leverage.
In the world of dating, the key levers are: looks, money and socializing.
The more attractive and richer you become while expanding your online and offline social circles, the more your effort multiplies.
On the other hand, if you concentrate on elements that have none or poor effect on your leverage (e.g., spending hours analyzing your ‘text game’), you will experience minuscule or no improvement at all.
The same applies to other ventures in life. This is the only way to get results…other than unreal luck.
Happy New Year.