The system is relying on a net of fairly sophisticated strategies to extract maximum profit from single men. The mechanism is simple and very subtle – various establishments create venues and blueprints that seemingly contain a pathway that could potentially produce the desired female interest, companionship, meaningful sexual experiences and maybe some of that mythical feeling known as love.
The most basic example would be night clubs and bars. The collective human consciousness has been led to believe that those are the places where it is socially acceptable to meet someone. The number of movies, books and articles agreeing with this notion is pretty high.
Where does the character in a film go when his lust kicks in? To a club or a bar. Then a woman winks at him, and the rest is history.
Back in the day, when I was still approaching women the PUA way, one of them reacted well but told me that I have selected the wrong scenery. When I asked her what would be a more appropriate context, she told me – “a night club”.
She was wrong and only fooling herself. In a club, she wouldn’t have been as impressed/triggered by my approach because in similar settings women have their “bitch shields” activated to the maximum and your efforts are diminished. Most females go there with their girlfriends to reject men, showcase their new clothes and generate some adrenaline within a body that has spent the entire week sitting on an office chair doing mind-numbing work.
Yet the system wants you in those venues, but not because the powers that shouldn’t be are concerned about your personal life. There are two main goals. One of them is cultural and aims to segregate the family unit – a strategy that makes the individual members weaker and prone to ideological manipulation.
The other goal is pure resource extraction. The architects know that single males are very likely to have a fair amount of savings. Many unmarried men live alone or with their parents which allows them to accumulate savings even if their job positions are not well paid. Various institutions and businesses are after that cash.
The evidence of the money-grabbing tactic is practically everywhere. On many occasions, it is free for women to enter a club whereas men have to cover an entry fee. Why? Because women act as prey for lonely men willing to pay to get some action.
Dating apps operate on the same principle. The vast majority of women do not purchase premium features because they don’t have to. Some do, usually to unlock the option to hide their age or because they are too fat to secure Mr. Fantastic, but those represent a small minority.
Ultimately, most men who go out to find a woman end up with the following night:
- Overpay for alcohol that costs 5 times less at the supermarket.
- Get rejected by pretentious and annoying women dancing to low IQ music.
- Go home at 2 am.
- Wake up tired and demotivated to do anything.
The self-improvement sector, which is almost entirely male-dominated, shares a similar design – a bunch of gurus are guiding you on your way to some miraculous ascension that is always one step ahead. If things are not working out, the problem is always you.
The promoted solutions vary from beard boosting products and pumps for dick enlargement to books designed to upgrade your “text game”.
One element that is always included in the manual is lifting.
According to the experts, if you are not fighting gravity, you are not trying and consequently deserve entirely your defeat on the dating battlefield. Yet those professors forget that bodybuilding is a new phenomenon that just recently got mainstream. More than likely their fathers and grandfathers secured their brides without knowing the differences between a biceps curl and a bench press. But today – it is expected of you to deadlift three times your body weight to earn your right to not be single anymore.
What are the biggest benefits of lifting for naturals?
- You will gain some muscle – up to 35 lbs throughout your entire career. (Very rare).
- You will become stronger – the newly acquired strength has a positive effect on your confidence and performance.
- You will get leaner – only if you don’t follow the permabulking advice of delusional clowns promoting squats & milk.
Leanness is a major benefit. Probably the greatest of them all for a natty. Many men become significantly more attractive once their jawline starts to pop. There’s a high number of fatsos who mutate into Mr. Fantastic upon burning the lard partying under their skin for the better part of their existence. Somewhat ironically, low body fat is more dependent on your diet than training. You don’t have to lift to be shredded.
In terms of attractiveness, the gains end here. Naturals will never have the Zyzz physique regardless of how hard they train. Truth be told, most natties look like retro swimmers while displaying strength above the low level common for the modern atrophied person.
The main reason why PUAs and red pillers want you lifting is to create the feeling of accomplishment within you. Once immersed in the activity, men feel in charge of their destiny. But weights cannot fix the major shortcomings behind the treatment that you receive from the modern entitled woman who fails to see beyond the superficial. Your new deadlift PR will neither make you taller nor augment the cash in your pocket.
Steroids don’t modify those properties either but have the capacity to create an otherworldly physique that can potentially do more damage. Sadly, injections come with another set of nasty bills – expenses, health issues, hair loss, premature aging…etc.
At the end of the day, lifting is limited and far from the reason why most men are kept in a cage. If anything, many repressed boys spend a large portion of their free time moving iron without experiencing the promised social benefits.
But the self-improvement experts would rarely talk about this because it doesn’t suit the narrative that you can become anything you want to be. They would rather have you spin your wheels while hoping that a miracle will come to life. They want you coming back for their advice until the end of times.
The idea that you need to constantly self-improve is flawed and serves the very demon creating the imbalanced situation on the dating market. The competition today is getting ridiculous. Men all over the world are constantly dancing in the hope that women will pick them out of the lot with other clowns.
How many of our actions are the result of manipulative false promises disguised as personal choices?
Imagine that you wake up today in front of a magic ball that ruthlessly informs you that you will never be capable of attracting a woman. Would you still do what you are about to do today? Would you preserve your habits? Will you continue to dance? Will you keep the same apps on your phone? Would you visit the same places? Would you watch the same movies? Would you read the same books? Would you subscribe to the same YouTube channels? Would you read the same subreddits? Would you dress the same way?
Would you go to the gym? Will you perform the same exercises?
The actions of the modern man are directly or indirectly meant to improve his chances to be with a woman. Will this ever change? Like I told you in A Hater’s Synthesis 2, change is mostly an illusion. Very often people confuse a personal shift in their life with a global tendency.
I don’t think there is a base for new development. The virus has reached the bone. Many of those tactics have been here before you were born and will remain here for a long time.
Besides, women will never admit that the system has been playing them since the beginning. They will never take responsibility for their mistakes and superficiality. They love their illusion of power and will try to hold on to it.
To understand how unlikely change is, ask your girlfriend to delete her social media accounts for you.
Tell her the following: “It’s either me or them.”
Look at her actions. Unless you are providing massive value for her (bucks&genes), she will transform into the most passionate lawyer she could be to preserve her digital presence intact. She loves her profiles more than she loves you.
Ultimately, men will continue to suffer from poor leverage – a vulnerability that creates the necessity for PUA and red pill antics. And while the advice of the coaches may be useful occasionally, it does not address the real underlying issues behind the dynamics that created the need to transform into a superhero to date an average girl that rarely brings anything of value to the union.