A.W.A.L.T. stands for “All Women Are Like That” and implies that the vast majority of women display extremely similar behavioral traits to the point where one can conclude that they all have a common, predictable character powered by ruthless hypergamy.
The notion is widely spread in the Red Pill community and other circles of the manosphere (e.g., MGTOW…etc.)
A couple of readers have asked for my opinion on the topic over the years. Today, I present it.
My experience with women confirms the A.W.A.L.T. principle.
The women that I’ve communicated with have undoubtedly showcased a multitude of traits ultimately painting a character constructed of the same notions and conduct.
I have observed the following:
During my cold approach days, women were reacting similarly, if not identically, to my openers.
For example, if I approach 10 women with the same opener, 8-10 out of them would respond the same way.
At first, I thought that this was to be expected. If you ask the same question, you would get the same answer, wouldn’t you?
But at one point, I realized that there is more to the story. They were not only responding similarly but also showcasing the same ideology and interpretations throughout the entire conversation.
Eventually, I began to feel as if I was talking to the same person over and over again.
In a way, I was.
Text isn’t any different.
I approached a lot of women on social media too. It’s practically the same except in digital form.
One time, I opened three women (100% non-related to one another) with:
“When did we land on the moon for the first time?”
All three of them said: “Wut?”
I am not kidding. They all said “Wut?” instead of “What?” You can’t fake that.
Similar Mind Concepts
The women that I’ve talked to have a very similar outlook on life. Most of them have embraced the idea of the “Secret” a.k.a. you build your own reality by being positive.
They seem to easily fall for New Age propaganda because it’s comfortable and fits the social media world.
“How tall are you?”
I don’t remember how many times I’ve been asked about my height back in my online dating days.
Most women seem obsessed with a man’s height.
This alludes to the fact that all women see their man the same way – tall, masculine, rich, dominant, emotionally firm…etc.
They look for ways to label you as “creepy”.
Women love to paint men as “creepy”. It’s one of their favorite words.
Their “creep” detectors are so sensitive that even a martyr could be seen as a “creep”.
One time I sent a woman a picture of a small kitten that I used to feed. She said: “Cute. Is it yours”?
The cat wasn’t mine, but I was feeding it when I’d see it outside from time to time. Eventually, it disappeared, and I assumed that it has died. So, I responded: “No. Used to be my friend but died.”
She said: “So you’re sending me pictures of a dead cat? That’s so creepy.” Then, she blocked me.
Why are they doing it?
It’s simple. Women are the choosers. As such, they look for flaws in you. When they don’t feel you 100%, they paint you as a creep to disqualify you and move on to the next guy.
As you can guess, the woman was giving me a hard time for the kitten not because it’s creepy, but because I wasn’t checking her boxes. If I was a 26-year-old Brad Pitt, she’d have never responded like that.
Her reply would’ve been something along the lines of: “I’m so sad. You have such a good heart…etc.”
On a couple of occasions, I’ve communicated with married and engaged women. They’d allegedly found the guy of their dreams but for some mysterious reason were talking to me.
Why? Because they’re always looking for bigger and better options, and I happened to be part of the guys that they were scanning.
They react to the same stimuli.
To know the truth about someone, watch what they react to and how.
There are many books on “game” which allegedly help you pick up women trough psychology.
Those tips & tricks may sound cool and sometimes even have some usefulness, but we all know consciously or not that the true driving factors of female attention are looks and money.
A lot of women say that they don’t like a man for his looks and money, but that’s clearly not true.
The most obvious example would be dating apps. Average guys barely get any matches online. And when we match with someone, it’s usually a girl that’s less attractive than us.
Conversely, hot guys get tons of attention.
If you take the photos of an ugly man and write the secret of life in his description, he will get fewer matches than a hot guy who’d put: “tuna, bicepzzzzz and bitchezzzz” in his bio.
Why Are All Women Like That?
There are two groups of reasons – biological and societal.
The biological are pretty clear. At the end of the day, a woman is a woman. It’s normal for them to share inherent similarities since they have the same biology.
The societal reasons, however, are the controllable variable producing most of the grief.
Women have been brainwashed by the same books, TV shows, articles, social media…etc. For example, the women who are now 30-45 have a worldview heavily shaped by TV series such as the Sex and the City which – a TV show in which the female characters are complaining about men 24/7.
The Mythical Unicorn
The organism has a defense reflex to the realization that all women are like that. We want to hold on to the idea that somewhere in the vast world there’s a sweet girl that is different and special.
I was the exact same way, although I didn’t know it at the time.
But guess who helped me get out of that state?
Nothing “red-pills” you like women themselves. Men can give you advice, but nothing beats wisdom derived from personal experience. It’s the most expensive lesson, but also the most effective.
I’ve been on dates with the stereotypical “sweet, shy girl” that’s supposed to be different.
And yes, to some extent those women were different, but when it came down to the actions that matter they quickly shape-shifted into your typical, flaky woman that needs “space” to “find herself”.
Does this mean that there aren’t women that don’t quite match the A.W.A.L.T. stereotype?
Of course, there are exceptions, but they are too few to matter.
A pharma company comes up with a drug that alleviates the symptoms of a disease only in 5% of the patients. The rest 95% get either no results or no results + side effects.
Would it be wise for the company to label this drug as a success because 5% got relief? Not really.
Ditto for A.W.A.L.T. Maybe 5% of the women out there are not like that, but those women are too few to matter.
When you account for the percentage of them that are either married or simply don’t like you, you will realize that you’re left with a less than 5% chance of finding a unicorn.
Besides, a woman that isn’t A.W.A.L.T. today could easily become A.W.A.L.T. tomorrow under the influence of her “friends” and social media.
A.M.A.L.T. – All Men Are Like That
As men, we are also victims to the same phenomenon, and therefore, one can say that the reverse principle, namely “A.M.A.L.T. – All Men Are Like That” applies too.
We have our male biology passing through the filter of the modern world which has conditioned us to follow a specific code of conduct to be considered normal and accepted
Unfortunately, the vast majority of men have been victimized.
Why do you think that all the male movements (MGTOW, Red Pill, PurplePill…etc.) exist?
Because “all men are like that” and all men have similar problems in today’s world.